Pregnant Then Elected campaign

Why we need more mums in Westminster

by Olga FitzRoy

I’m a freelance sound engineer, a mum to a toddler, and an activist campaigning for shared parental leave for the self-employed. I believe we need more mothers in Parliament.

Parental Pay Equality is the campaign group I set up because no-one was speaking out for self-employed mums like me. Every year there are 24,000 self-employed mothers who have no option to take shared parental leave, and an unknown number of new dads who can’t get a single day off to spend with their babies because of their self-employed status. We’ve had so many letters from women whose careers have stalled because the state has decided that they must be the primary carer. As the American actress, Lily Tomlin said I always wondered why somebody doesn’t do something about that. Then I realized, I was somebody”

Encouraged by my own campaign experience I am now partnering with maternity discrimination pressure group, Pregnant Then Screwed. This month we are launching a new series of events, Pregnant Then Elected, to get more mothers into public life. The October 25th event is already sold out but more are in the pipeline.  

Why shouldn’t the next elected MP be a working mother? To paraphrase Jess Phillips MP-  “If you ever wonder if you are good enough to stand for election, just look at around you”. If you look at the middle-class, middle-aged, middling ability white men who run the country (yes I know our PM is a woman, but we aren’t seeing many policies right now that help women), and think you can do better, you probably can.

How it all started

My own campaign began after I talked my husband into building a website, ran some surveys, and began raising awareness with colleagues and trade bodies in the creative industries. Before I knew it, there was a snap-election. The Labour Party had listened to us and included shared parental leave for the self-employed in their 2017 manifesto. We had pieces in most national papers, helped in no small part by my twisting the arm of every pop star I’d ever worked with.

While the headlines about politics have been pretty depressing recently, no matter what your political persuasion, I’ve found engagement with politicians anything but. Politicians of all parties have been generous with their time, and been sympathetic to the issue.

Political Support

Labour Deputy Leader, Tom Watson’s office, met with me the week after the snap election was called. Lib Dem Deputy Leader, Jo Swinson called me early on in the campaign to discuss the coalition’s policy on Shared Parental Leave, and the Labour shadow early-years minister, Tracy Brabin MP, decided to table a 10-Minute Rule bill to change the law and give the self-employed access to shared parental leave. The #SelfieLeave bill is now waiting its second reading in parliament on 26th October, and you can sign the petition and email  your MP to support it here. (Please watch Tracy Brabin’s speech for the first reading of the #Selfieleave bill if you need inspiration.)

Next steps

Despite broad political support, getting the government to take action has been difficult. Some of the paralysis can be explained by Brexit, but I think it goes deeper than that. The Taylor Review, to which we contributed, recommended that parental benefits for the self-employed should equal those of employees. The Women and Equalities select committee made several recommendations, including dedicated paternity leave of at least 6 weeks.

Even a senior MP, Harriet Harman, proposed a system of proxy voting to enable MPs to take baby leave. Yet none of these recommendations are law at the time of writing. If MPs cannot even prioritise their friends and colleagues having baby leave then our system of representation is seriously flawed. When opportunities to minimise the motherhood penalty, that holds back the 80% women who have children, are missed again and again, the system is well and truly broken.

Campaign action

Pregnant Then Elected is an event aimed at encouraging mothers from every background to run for Parliament, and we have reserved spaces for mothers who are BAME, disabled or on low incomes, as we need all voices of motherhood to be heard. 

Our aim is to demystify the process of standing for office. And we will be asking our speakers how they have coped with the challenges of combining politics and motherhood. On October 25th we will hear from women in all stages of their political careers, from activists, councillors, MPs and peers. The confirmed speakers include Councillor Rezina Chowdhury, Caroline Noakes MP, Tracy Brabin MP, Kemi Badenoch MP,  Tulip Siddiq MP, Baroness Sal Brinton, Amelia Womack (Greens Deputy Leader) and Sophie Walker (WEP Leader).

Panel discussions will be chaired by Frances Scott from 50:50 and Aceil Haddad from Pregnant Then Screwed, with lots of time for questions from the audience.

Our first event sold out within a couple of hours of putting it on Instagram, but we have a mailing list for people that are interested in future events – we are planning to take Pregnant Then Elected around the country! Here is the signup link.

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